The family dynamic and childhood of the codependent play a huge role in developing codependency. People are not born codependent, it’s something they learn later on in order to fit in their family and most
There can be multiple definitions for codependency. One of them suggests that it’s when people define their own identities and values depending on how much the others need and appreciate them. So, most of the
Let’s start with explaining the word abuse. It can be defined as exploiting one’s goodwill. Within this context, we can say that it’s basically using one’s emotional state against them in a way that would serve the abuser’s purpose. It
The title of the article may have confused you a little. It can be surprising to hear that something such as sleep deprivation is considered a manipulation tactic. There really isn’t a direct connection between sleep deprivation and manipulation. Therefore,
In my previous article, I mentioned how deeply we could get affected by the things our loved ones say. When words are mixed together and served as a word salad, they can leave us quite hopeless and drained. Criticism, arguments
Have you ever tried to talk to someone only to regret it? Ended up looking like the guilty party although you know you were right? Or have you ever asked yourself a question like ‘what on earth was that?’ at
(The article includes spoilers about the 1944 movie titled ‘Gaslight’.)
This extremely effective manipulation technique gets its name from an old play. This play was adapted into movies in 1940 and 1944. In this article, I will
Imitating and mirroring is one of the most common methods narcissists and other emotional manipulators use quite often. Especially at the beginning of the relationship, the narcissist starts analyzing you. Whether it’s a romantic or professional relationship, or even if
If you’re in a relationship with a person who has narcissistic personality disorder, they will try to isolate you from others as best they can. Someone who’s been married to a narcissistic person or someone who newly broke up